What is your religious denomination and what denomination are you open to being matched with (orthodox, modern orthodox, conservadox,conservative, renewal, reform, culturally jewish, born jewish but not interested in practicing, I like the food and culture and will partake in events).
Would you be open to being matched with someone who is not Jewish?
Tell us about your journey with Judaism and what you are looking for in a partner.
Were you involved heavily in Jewish community as a child, summer camps BBYO etc? Are you involved now or do you wish to be?
Do you keep a kosher home, eat kosher style, avoid shellfish and pork, eat freely?
What typical hours do you work? Is this work your lifelong career or a temporary stepping stone? Are your hours flexible, are you your own boss, do you work from home? Are you super career oriented- ie does your career come above all else or would you put your significant other (SO) and family above all else?
What is your personality type (Type A, organized, high strung, highly motivated, perfectionist; relaxed, easy going, very go with the flow, nothing gets me upset)?
What is one thing people don't know about you that you wish they did?
What are you most grateful for in your life?
What is one thing you cannot skip in your day?
Do you thrive better in organization or chaos?
What do you do to unwind?
What is expensive but totally worth it?
Do you hold any board or volunteer positions, is giving back a big part of your life?
Do you love to travel, is this a big part of your life?
What is your approach to anything in life like planning trips, dates, weekend and week (I am a planner, very systematic, plan way in advance. I need to be in the right mood to plan things. I let everything work itself out, I am super spontaneous and do not plan, I wake up and decide what I want to do that day)?
Words to help you describe yourself- honest, loyal, sense of humor, easy going, organized/type A, in control/takes charge, adventurous, loving/caring, puts others first, physically affectionate, need my space, independent, passionate, co-dependent, fun, spontaneous, grounded.
Where is your ideal first date (bar/restaurant/appetizers; hike or something very active or strenuous or competitive; activity like axe throwing, mini golf, escape room; a park or simple walk around town)?
What are your favorite hobbies sin general if not already mentioned above (watching/attending sporting events; fishing; camping; dancing; being in nature, trains/figurines; playing video games; water sports; art, pottery, crafting, sewing; theatre, literature, photography, film video; playing music; going to concerts often)?
Personality type, career, political leaning, activity level, common hobbies you hope for, wants children vs undecided vs no children, has children from a prior marriage or not, political leaning, main values/life/world view, desire to travel, words to help you describe a match- honest, loyal, sense of humor, must make me laugh, easy going, organized/type A, in control/takes charge, can calm me down, adventurous, loving/caring, puts others first, physically affectionate, respects my space, independent, passionate, co-dependent, fun, spontaneous, grounded, good looks, career oriented, family oriented, philanthropic, successful, money driven or well off/motivated by success or finances, cares for the environment, care about their impact on the world over valuing money etc etc.
What are your deal breakers?
Is it ok if you match uses alcohol, marijuana or drugs and in what capacity?
Some Ideas: I like to wake up and get out of the house as soon as possible. I like to go for a long hike, bike ride, run or ski, I am very active, a weekend warrior. I like to relax on the weekends and stay home all day. I need coffee and a long breakfast before doing anything, I like relaxing mornings at home. I like to get as much done as possible in the weekend like meal prep, cooking, organization, cleaning, projects. I like to go away to the mountains or on a trip, I am rarely ever home. I like to brunch with friends. I like to have a relaxing day with family. I like to go to Synagogue. I read a book and stay in my pajamas all day. I play video games or computer games. I have my children so it depends.
Examples: I observe shabbat strictly, I do not drive, I observe shabbat but I do drive, I will go to friends for shabbat or go to shabbat events. I stay in and chill, watch movies, play video games or relax, I am not a fan of going out and will go out rarely for special occasions or if I have to. I love going out, I party every weekend at clubs/bars, partying is definately part of my life. I go out to dinner with some friends then go home. I would like to go out with my SO for date nights, that's my ideal weekend, then we would go out/go home. I usually am out of town every weekend in the mountains or traveling, I am away as much as possible.
What are your favorite active activities you do more than a few times a year (skiing/snowboarding, running, gym, spinning, yoga, barre, pilates, hiking, rock climbing, mountain biking, road biking, rafting, kayaking, paddle boarding, etc.)?
How many days a week do you work out/exercise/go to the gym?
Is it important to you to have a partner that has a similar activity level to you (yes a must, no not necessary, I would like for them to partake occasionally, I want a partner more active than I am to push me)?
