Name
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First Name
Last Name
Email
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Date of birth
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Address
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This is for security purposes, none of this information is shared.
Address 1
Address 2
City
State/Province
Zip/Postal Code
Country
Phone
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What is your preferred method of contact?
How did you hear about us?
What is your gender?
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What are your pronouns?
he/him
her/hers
they/them
other
Who are you interested in dating?
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What age range are you seeking?
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What is your height (ft' in")?
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What do you aim to get out of BeShareIt? (mark all that apply)
What is your relationship status?
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Single
Divorced
Separated
Widowed
Would you date some one who is...(mark all that apply)
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Do you speak any languages nearly fluently other than English?
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What is your religious denomination? Tell us more via the prompts below about your Judaism and what you are seeking in a partner regarding their Judaism.
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What is your religious denomination and what denomination are you open to being matched with (orthodox, modern orthodox, conservadox,conservative, renewal, reform, culturally jewish, born jewish but not interested in practicing, I like the food and culture and will partake in events).
Would you be open to being matched with someone who is not Jewish?
Tell us about your journey with Judaism and what you are looking for in a partner.
Were you involved heavily in Jewish community as a child, summer camps BBYO etc? Are you involved now or do you wish to be?
Do you keep a kosher home, eat kosher style, avoid shellfish and pork, eat freely?
Where do you currently live?
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Where did you grow up? If you did not grow up in the Denver area, what brought you here and when, do you plan on staying?
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Who is/are the most important things in your life?
What is your highest level of education?
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GED
High school
Vocational school
Some college but did not graduate
Associates degree
Bachelor's degree
Advanced Degree
What do you do for work? Tell us more about it via the prompts below.
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What typical hours do you work? Is this work your lifelong career or a temporary stepping stone? Are your hours flexible, are you your own boss, do you work from home? Are you super career oriented- ie does your career come above all else or would you put your significant other (SO) and family above all else?
What should we know about you? Expand on this via the prompts below and anything else we should know.
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What is your personality type (Type A, organized, high strung, highly motivated, perfectionist; relaxed, easy going, very go with the flow, nothing gets me upset)?
What is one thing people don't know about you that you wish they did?
What are you most grateful for in your life?
What is one thing you cannot skip in your day?
Do you thrive better in organization or chaos?
What do you do to unwind?
What is expensive but totally worth it?
Do you hold any board or volunteer positions, is giving back a big part of your life?
Do you love to travel, is this a big part of your life?
What is your approach to anything in life like planning trips, dates, weekend and week (I am a planner, very systematic, plan way in advance. I need to be in the right mood to plan things. I let everything work itself out, I am super spontaneous and do not plan, I wake up and decide what I want to do that day)?
Words to help you describe yourself- honest, loyal, sense of humor, easy going, organized/type A, in control/takes charge, adventurous, loving/caring, puts others first, physically affectionate, need my space, independent, passionate, co-dependent, fun, spontaneous, grounded.
Where is your ideal first date (bar/restaurant/appetizers; hike or something very active or strenuous or competitive; activity like axe throwing, mini golf, escape room; a park or simple walk around town)?
What are your favorite hobbies sin general if not already mentioned above (watching/attending sporting events; fishing; camping; dancing; being in nature, trains/figurines; playing video games; water sports; art, pottery, crafting, sewing; theatre, literature, photography, film video; playing music; going to concerts often)?
What are you looking for in a partner and what are your deal breakers? Use the prompts below for ideas and to expand upon your answer.
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Personality type, career, political leaning, activity level, common hobbies you hope for, wants children vs undecided vs no children, has children from a prior marriage or not, political leaning, main values/life/world view, desire to travel, words to help you describe a match- honest, loyal, sense of humor, must make me laugh, easy going, organized/type A, in control/takes charge, can calm me down, adventurous, loving/caring, puts others first, physically affectionate, respects my space, independent, passionate, co-dependent, fun, spontaneous, grounded, good looks, career oriented, family oriented, philanthropic, successful, money driven or well off/motivated by success or finances, cares for the environment, care about their impact on the world over valuing money etc etc.
What are your deal breakers?
Is it ok if you match uses alcohol, marijuana or drugs and in what capacity?
How often do you drink alcohol?
Everyday
3-4 times a week
Once a week
Socially
Never
Sober
Do you use tobacco products?
Yes, daily
Yes, socially
Yes, pipe or cigar once in a while
No, never
Do you use Marijuana?
Yes, daily
Yes, a few times a week
Yes, socially
Yes a few times a year
No, never
Do you use any illicit drugs?
Yes, daily
Yes, weekly
Yes, monthly
Yes, socially
No, never
What does your typical Saturday and Sunday look like?
Some Ideas: I like to wake up and get out of the house as soon as possible. I like to go for a long hike, bike ride, run or ski, I am very active, a weekend warrior. I like to relax on the weekends and stay home all day. I need coffee and a long breakfast before doing anything, I like relaxing mornings at home. I like to get as much done as possible in the weekend like meal prep, cooking, organization, cleaning, projects. I like to go away to the mountains or on a trip, I am rarely ever home. I like to brunch with friends. I like to have a relaxing day with family. I like to go to Synagogue. I read a book and stay in my pajamas all day. I play video games or computer games. I have my children so it depends.
What does your typical Friday and Saturday night look like?
Examples: I observe shabbat strictly, I do not drive, I observe shabbat but I do drive, I will go to friends for shabbat or go to shabbat events. I stay in and chill, watch movies, play video games or relax, I am not a fan of going out and will go out rarely for special occasions or if I have to. I love going out, I party every weekend at clubs/bars, partying is definately part of my life. I go out to dinner with some friends then go home. I would like to go out with my SO for date nights, that's my ideal weekend, then we would go out/go home. I usually am out of town every weekend in the mountains or traveling, I am away as much as possible.
Do you like to live an active lifestyle? Please expand on this via the prompts below.
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What are your favorite active activities you do more than a few times a year (skiing/snowboarding, running, gym, spinning, yoga, barre, pilates, hiking, rock climbing, mountain biking, road biking, rafting, kayaking, paddle boarding, etc.)?
How many days a week do you work out/exercise/go to the gym?
Is it important to you to have a partner that has a similar activity level to you (yes a must, no not necessary, I would like for them to partake occasionally, I want a partner more active than I am to push me)?
In an ideal world, where do you see yourself in 5 years?
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How soon are you ready to commit to getting married?
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ASAP, I'm ready now, just need the right person
1-2 years
3-4 years
5-7 years
8+ years
I don't ever want to get married but I want to be in a committed relationship forever with one person and I am ready to find that person now
I have already been married and am not sure if it interests me but I am looking for a long term partner
Marriage may be complicated/may not be feasible for me/may not be something I desire
Would you be open to being matched with a partner who has children from a prior relationship?
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Yes
No
Only if they are 100% my perfect match
Yes, if their children are teens or above
Yes, if their children are 21+
If you have children or want children, is it important to you that they be raised Jewish?
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Yes, must be raised solely Jewish
Yes, must be Jewish but can celebrate Christian holidays like Christmas and Easter by way of Santa and Easter Bunny
Open to multiple religions in my home
If you are not Jewish, would you convert if your match wanted?
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N/A I am Jewish
Yes
No
Maybe, I would have to discuss and research further
Do you do any volunteer work? If so, with what organization?
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If you won $100,000 what would you do with it?
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If you could travel anywhere for free, where would you go and why? What would you do on that trip?
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Do you have pets?
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Do you have any food allergies or dietary restrictions? If so what are they and to what degree (ex: sensitivity vs anaphylactic)?
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Why do you think you're single?
Questions? Comments? Anything you want to clarify or explain in more detail?
